How To Use Your Vibrator For Maximum Pleasure

How to use your vibrator for maximum pleasure 

It’s no secret that it takes longer for those with a vagina to reach climax and orgasm. Sometimes we just go along with it, but finding out what works for you may help you in bedroom play throughout your life and with your partner. Vibrators are a great solo and toy to use with your partner to really get to know what turns you on, and what things you may not enjoy so much, too. It’s all about investigation and taking time to see what you love and what your body responds to.

Ensure you pick the right vibrator 

It may take many purchases until you find what works for you. Sex toys have been becoming less taboo over the years - especially in 2021, and so it’s clear you’re not alone if you find yourself searching for sex toys online. As the sex toy market grows and grows you find yourself looking through thousands of products to find something that may not even be right for you.

Vibrators come in all shapes, sizes, colours and more. Something too big will cause discomfort, whilst something too small won’t have the impact you’re desperately looking for. There are glass dildos, silicone dildos and vibrators, mini bullets, some with clit stimulation, the list goes on.

We recommend you read product reviews, do as much research as you can for vibrators online and look at websites that may give you guidance on the type of vibrator that might be right for you - and look at product descriptions including width etc, so you’re not faced with worrying about returns. 

Ask your friends!

Pleasure is nothing to be ashamed about. More times than not your friends may have already found what works for them. Bring it up in conversations about what they've found works for them etc. It could be really useful for helping you reach the climax you’re so desperately looking for. 

Play around with all areas of your body - not just the obvious 

It's not just the really intimate areas that need tender loving care. As much as dildos and vibrators do a lot of the work for you with their feel-good vibrations, multiple settings and various shapes, it is still very much a practice that requires a little effort from you if you want to achieve a full orgasm. Although the vibrators come with the feels, it is very much still a manual process of where and how long you put it over your body. Some of those with a vagina admit that they’re not even sure they’ve orgasmed, but now is the perfect time to explore areas that may to-date have been left untouched. Here at Melting Pleasures, we know every person is different so we’re not going to tell you to follow a set pattern of positioning - we want you to have fun and enjoy the ride!

Some areas of the body may feel better than others, so we recommend exploring not just the intimate areas. Leading up to the genitals can be more exciting - rather than just jumping straight there. Don’t be pressured into thinking that you have to use it on only those areas of the body. Whether you’ve got your vibrator for solo play or to bring in into bedroom play with your partner, we hope that these vibrators will help you know what you like and what you don’t necessarily like. Try exploring areas of your body including the neck, and gliding down your body leading to your genitals. Many people with a vagina have found through the use of vibrators and especially those including clitoris stimulation that stimulating the clitoris too much can cause some discomfort.

But once you’ve chosen a vibrator that you think may work for you, it's time to get down and play. You may find that directly stimulating the clitoris is your thing, whilst others may not. It’s about getting used to the vibrator, the settings and pulses it offers and how it connects with areas of your body in the best way. Once you’ve found it, you’ll wonder how you’ve lived without vibrators for so long!

Don’t just be the only one to control your vibrator

Hand it over, go on! It may just be the best thing you did. With your partner in control, it’s more exciting as you’re not sure what to expect or where they are intending on using it on you. We think there's definitely something exciting about not having control!

At the moment, we are loving Lelo Ina Vibrator - coming with 10 unique settings and wand features, it can help massage the g spot and includes added stimulation.